Old age

Old age

Have you ever think that how do you look when you will be old? 

What will be your mental state at that time period?

 What was your behavior towards the children and people younger than you? 

 What will be your mental state or thought process at that time? 

Which she is considerd as old age? 

                                   When you wear new clothes, with time they lose their cleanliness and become dirty, start to deteriorate. 

                                                            They simply tells you that their end has come and now you have to wear new set of clothes. 

                                                         Similarly,  old age is the condition where a soul thinks of changing its clothes,

                                      that is by leaving it and going to another one of a child. 

                                                         From where it continues its journey of a new life. 

                                     Old age if seen usually then it is simply a physical state in which everyone's body has to come who was born in this world. 

                       But it is not as simple as it seems to be. 

                 Old age is an age where you have to cut what you have sown during your entire life.

       It depends on the person that what are the good deeds he performed during his young age. 

                 Some enjoy their old age by experiencing nobility in their family, with real good friends, 

                           with their grandchildren, on a vacation with their wife and family, on a pilgrim tour and so on.

                   It may be as bad as hell for many people in the future and also it may be as satisfying as heaven for someone.

                                                         Some reap the fruits of their evil deeds by being tortured by their son or his wife, 

                                                          by taking all the hatred and ignorance of their whole family members, by dying slowly due to any disease, 

           by being neglected by the society, by being thrown away from the home built by them for their children by their children, 

               by hardly living their lives on streets and searching for something to feed their bellies, 

       at that moment of time they realise that the things which they were used to do with their children

                          are now coming back to them with such a horrible sight. 

                                                   During old age, people understands everything right or wrong, good or bad, they did during their whole life. 

                 In old age people have a lot of time to think over their whole life, to sum up what they did in their whole life. 

                                            They have a lot of time to see the movie of their whole life, 

                                                    by comfortably sitting on a chair or on a swing, 

                                                      sipping from a cup of tea in a day where it was raining outside,

              Remembering the old days, the days of childhood, where they used to bath in this natural shower, 

                         Where they used to make paper boats and send them on an adventure for treasure hunting inside the sewers. 

                                                  The days of their young age, where they used to be the most active person ever existed, 

                                               Where they enjoyed travelling the world, 

                               Where they have felt the love in working under pressure without having any interest in that work,

                                                      But still anyhow managing to meet the requirements of jobs before deadline. 

                                          Where they used to go to college and hang out with their friends.

                            Where they have the energy to enjoy the moments of life, discovering themselves, feeling the freedom.    

How old age is middle age? 

        many old people are aged only by their physical state and from inside they were just like a little kid. 

           During old age, they were blessed to live a life like their childhood again, old age is a rebirth of childhood. 

                 If you ever saw and observed old people with little kids,

      

                       then you will find that they are way too funnier and happier with kids as compared to them with adults. 

                        During old age people have lots of stories to tell, lots of philosophies to discuss, lots of fantasies to think. 

                                                          At that age people need somebody to hear their tales,

            Somebody to laugh at the jokes cracked by them, 

                          somebody to follow the advices given by them, to walk on the path they have shown.

                     I think that you should have to try this out, go and spend some time with your grandparents, 

                      or any old person, ask them about their life, their fun in their young age, I am pretty sure they will love taking with you. 

         Just like a child need care and attention, similarly old people want it too. 

       In most of the cases they got their "Somebody" in the form of their children or grandchildren,

                        but in some cases their so called "somebody" have no time to talk to their parents,

                       to eat with them, to spend a comfortable quality time with them and then they were forced to shift their address to "Old age homes".

                            Hatred is better than complete ignorance. 

                                   and it is the ignorance which was given by some people to their old parents. 

               Have you ever wondered in your thoughts that why old age homes were built?              

          They were used to made to provide protection to old aged people from intruders and helps them to live a safe and secure life.

                        Old aged people have a lot of life experience but very little energy for their bodies 

                  and that amount of energy is not sufficient for them to carry on their personal required works. 

           It was built for those people who have lost their children due to some reason and they have no one to care during their hard time. 

          But now, old age homes are a bitter truth of most of the people from this young generation nowadays. 

                      after spending too many years with different kinds of people, they developed a fine quality of reading people.

                 reading people in the sense understanding them before they even say a single word. 

                     Old age is the age where most of the people find their sense of satisfaction.

                                  Some  people in their old age feel fully satisfied and then they start losing their purpose for living,

                                        And it is the fact that how can any other person save the person who has lost in his own mind.  

                                                       And due to this reason, they people quit eating anything, not even their medicines, they lose their desire to live. 

                   But some people want to and even love to die as a workaholic.

                          Old people at that age realises that the one who was born, has to die,

                                                              so many of them accept the truth and enjoy till the last second of their life,

                                       While some are afraid of dying and refuse to believe that they will die 

    and so they live freely but with a fear of death in their hearts.   

                                  At that age those people also realise that the real happiness is not in money, 

          not in materialistic things, not in those things for which they have fought with others.

          They realise that nothing is kept, in fighting for materialistic things, in living for people,

         in keeping a high level ego, in showing off, in making ones status, 

                                                 in making a fake image of yourself visible to people to hear their false compliments, 

                                     to remain a fake person. 

                                             They realise that the only thing matters for a satisfied life is mental peace, 

                  real friends, a good and supporting family and then they like to see pleasures of life in the smallest of things.

                                                    That's why if you talk to a wise old person,

                                                    then you will find out that they have a great sense of humour and they can laugh on every little thing they find funny.

                                         Many old people find their mental peace in devotion of God and so they're always in rush if you tell them to go on a pilgrimage.

                             Sometimes Old age also gives people satisfaction and happiness in their life. 

      The only thing life wants is you to be a person who can seek happiness in everything, everywhere, everytime. 

                                                    Imagine you are enjoying your retirement at different locations with your husband/wife, 

                                               Imagine you both were holding each others hands and watching and enjoying sunset, watching a movie in a theatre.

                                Having a meal together during evening at a restraunt beside a lake where swans are swimming, lotuses are about to blossom, birds are flying in the clear sky, 

                              With one hand you are holding your husband's/ wife's hand and with other you both are feeding each other,

        you both are looking into each other's eyes with such a love and affection which can never be destroyed. 

Imagine how pleasant it will be, feel the satisfaction you will get at that moment of time. 

                                     Old age is not so cruel as many people think of. 

                                     At that time people understands that every moment of life is wonderful and the most beautiful, 

                                                        They start living those small moments of life when the end of their life is near. 

                                         Why don't we understand it right now and start living a Real life, a life where nothing is ugly, a life where you are satisfied. 

So, these are some of my views regarding old age, comment down below how you want to spend your old age, your little friend is curious to know.

THANKS FOR READING:)