Love/what is love for you

Love

I don't know from where to start this topic because it is very much interesting then it seems to be. 

                 Tell me in your words what is love according to you and also take a look at the stuff below.

                    Love!! 
                               A beautiful thing which amazes everyone. 

                            Everyone loves someone or everyone at least once in their life.

                                                         Most of them got that feeling after seeing someone and someone feel it when they're on a holiday with their family.

                               Most of the people are living in an illusion about this thing, they thought that love is happened between two person Only,

         and many of them are mad at that thing and then they say that their soulmate is the person to whom they love,        

                                   but the interesting thing is that they never seen that person but still they are in love of him.         

                              I met many people who thinks like that, But nothing is wrong in that thing, if a person gets happiness when living with that other person then it is a very good thing. 

What do you think about love? Is it attraction to anyone's body, or it is above that? 

Attraction and love are two separate things. 

             The people who call love a physical thing are not fully correct. 

                                             Love is something more above all the physical relations. 

                                       The physical urge which people call love is just an attraction towards another person. 

                          Those kind of people don't love the person, they love their bodies. 

                                                         Love is something which can never be destroyed or which can never die, 

                           but the physical body of a person grew older and older with time and a time comes when it became useless. 

                                                       Love is the eternal truth in the world and it is the truth. 

             You can see that all the spiritual masters who have emerged have taught the same thing that love is eternal.

                                                     Our researhcers have defined it this way that love is an emotion which was triggered by some chemical reactions inside our body.

                                           But this is just a lesser version of what the real truth is, the thing which is eternal cannot be expressed in words.

                                                                                To understand love one need experience not words and when you throw yourself deep down in the discovery of what is love, then you will find out that love is not seperate from you, you will then find out that you are no longer in love, you are love.

                                                                                              Even the word "love" is not love itself, its just a word to describe the real thing, engage in the real thing not in just words.

                   When you say to someone that "I love you", then it means that there are limits to your love and your love is not of absolute kind.

                                                                                                 We don't need to say what is true and what is true can never be said with some words. 

                                                                                                     

How would you know that the love is the eternal truth or just an illusion?

Observation is a very powerful thing humans can do.

                                                                           Observatoin does not means judging someone, observing is just seeing the thing as it is, accepting as it is, perfectly imperfect.

                 When you drive your focus on observing something which has a nature of darkness, then it will fade away like darkness disappears when even a single ray of light comes.

                  Such as if you observe yourself carefully when you will be angry then you will find out that yuor anger has gone now and also that there is not such a thing as anger it is just the absence of mercy, similarly hate is just an absence of love, and so on and on.

                                                           Whatever the things are whose nature is of darkness is nothing but just an illusion and they are just taken the existence due to the absence of the real truth. 

                                               However, when you redirect your focus and observatoin on love, then a miracle will happen, instead of vanishing, the love will expand and will cover the entire universe, that is a sign which indicates that love is the real eternal truth. 

How to stop attraction for someone? 

This sometimes happens to you that you got attracted by a person but you know that he/she is not a good person to deal with. 

                              But you got addicted to its appearance and it surely affects you in your some vital work.              

                           At that moment of time, this becomes important to not to get attracted towards him/her. 

                              Some great men says that attention is equals to attraction. 

                                       The more attention you give to one thing, the more affection will increase in you for that thing.            

                                                  So, it becomes important not to pay attention to the person to whom you are attracted and want to break that attraction. 

                       Ignoring that person like it was a stranger to you and doesn't exist in the world. 

          Not paying attention doesn't only means not looking at that or ignoring.

                                      Not paying attention also applies to your brain also, it means not thinking about that person, 

                             not thinking that I'm ignoring him, does he mind it or not. 

                                    Just forgetting that person like he/she was never spawned in the earth. 

                                                        People from the old culture thought that every relation which has love must be named and if people didn't have a name for their love is not legal or we can say is a crime according to our old people, but they are partially right and wrong at the same time. 

Let me try to define it to you by a simple example.

Do you have any crush?

If yes,then what is the relation between you both? 

You are not boyfriend/girlfriend and also you are not brother/sister then how should you name that relation..... As a friend??

  Do you think this title is appropriate for you both? 

        Actually you can't give any name to that thing but the name you gave is just love.

                Actually if we see then we will find that love has no name, let's say you love your pet cat but you don't name the relation between you both.

 A monk loves everyone but he don't make any kind of relation with anyone and that's why he is called a monk.

                                                 He loves everyone as his own children, he even can sacrifice his life to save a little ant.
                           The saying that love has great power is very true, you can try it by yourself, the only thing you need for this little experiment is two jars and some boiled rice.

 Many of you have heard about this technique but I prefer you to try it by your own to know the power of love-
                                                    The only thing you have to do is just put boiled rice in equal amount in both the jars, label one of them as love and one as hate.

         Just say"i love you" to one jar and"i hate you" to the other one and day by day you will notice that the jar with "love" sign is still ready to eat but the jar with the label "hate" is ruined like it stays there for years.

         If you try the same thing with people then you can think with your own mind what will be the results and what if you apply this simple thing on yourself?

  The results will make you jump off of bed and yell in your house because of the great feeling of living yourself,
           you will find yourself more cheerful, more energetic, more intelligent, and you will notice that you started loving everyone, either he/she looks good or is the ugliest person.

                                Then you will realise that there is not such a thing as ugliness, you will see everyone as the most beautiful person or thing in the earth.
             You will then start paying attention to even the normal looking stone and find yourself in the love with that stone.
                                    Somewhere you have heard of the stories of some kind of rich man who was very rich but still is unable to get rid of sadness and find happiness, he tried all the things possible which makes a person happy but then he goes to a monk or to a very old wise man for some time and then when he came he seems to be the happiest person in the earth.
          Have you ever thought that what did the old wise man in the story tells to the rich man? 

 Actually he didn't told anything to him but he tells him to find happiness in very little and silly things and also to try to love yourself and try to find love in those things in which you neglect in your daily lives.

                                                                           He tells him to live the childhood of his children love them a lot and radiate love all around yourself and also motivate your colleagues to practice the same thing.

                   The person who achieved that point was found to be least worried about anything and most of the time smiling.

 He then starts living in the true sense, he then start loving every small thing around him. 

                        Loving everyone makes you happy and for loving everyone you have to start loving yourself, coz you never love anyone if you don't even love yourself. 

Just try it once the feeling you will get is unforgettable. 

                      Most of the people thought that love is the physical connection between two people, but the urge for that kind of love is not love, it then take the shape of lust.

 A very few people exactly know that love happens at a spiritual level, we can say it like, if a person doesn't love himself then how you think he loves you or others.

For loving others one must know how to love yourself.

                   If you see a little child then  you will see that a child loves everyone without caring that the other person loves him or not thatswhy you found a little child always smiling, he never expect anything in return from anyone. 

                       If you keep looking at the child then you will find yourself in love with that child, then you will enjoy his/her every action, every reaction, and you will also remember your days of silliness. 
                                                                Love is in every small of the smallest things in the world if you understands it and also it doesn't exist if you have a different mental picture towards love.
                                     A little physical connections only make it strong but they are destructive if not handled intelligently and wisely, then it takes another shape, which was horrible.

                                                              Most of the people say that they have to leave their dreams for the person they love but they didn't understand that true love doesn't allow you to leave your dreams for them,

                                                                                  They will wait for you but never force you to do such kind of things which are harmful for you.    
                                                                   In some kind of relationship, people thought that love ends within two people after their breakup but it still exist between both of them they just make it a little complicated to understand. 

           If we take an example then suppose the person to whom you broke up a few days ago is at a place where you have only two decisions regarding his life, you can either save his life or let him die, then what would you do?  

                           I'm pretty sure that you can't let him die if you are not a psychopath, you broke up with him but still you have the feeling of love for him inside you, you are just trying to hide it. 

                                                When a person is in some kind of relationship but the other person likes somebody else or he/she have more important stuff to focus on and when they tell the person that thing,

                                                                     then most of the people say that I love her so much but she doesn't and say that now I have to show her my worth and have to take my revenge. 

               Then my friend i am telling you that you didn't love that person, you just want to stay with that person for your benefit because if you love him then you always thought of their happiness and never think like that.

               If you have to sacrifice something from your side then also you will do it without expecting anything in return. 

                                               You don't have to put any extra effort to understand love, it is all around us.

                              The only thing you have to do is to stay aware and to pay a little attention to natural things around you, go outside in nature it is the best thing to love and live with or you can just see the innocence of your pet when he or she do any kind of stupid, funny or random things which make you angry, you automatically starts loving them.
                                             Think about your favourite person to whom you love the most, the mental picture comes in your mind was the smiling face of that person and it is the best way to start loving people, observe them, try to see their decency, try to see their kindness, try to see their love when they talks to you or with any other person, you will certainly start loving them and also to yourself.

              Love is not the thing we see in most of our Bollywood movies, it is the most beautiful thing in life if we get it in the proper way.

You can understand its meaning when you start loving yourself and try to see the whole world with a different eye,when you get that thing the world saw a wise man emerging. 

You probably saw or hear somewhere the thing that "The way you look at this world, it would becomes like that only".

                                                     If you want love then start changing your point of view, give love to others and never expect anything in return. 

You will be a very happy and joyful person. 

        Tell me in the comments how you see the world !!, what you fantasize about love and life.  

THANKS FOR READING:)